Saturday, August 8, 2009
Bahaha.
Feeling a bit unappreciated, so I decided to follow myself on blogger. Yay!! I now have a grand total of *1* follower....who just happens to be me...Yes, I can see how that might seem a little sad....
Friday, August 7, 2009
Bigheaded Are The Arrogant, and Sorry Are The Wrong.
I just had a fb conversation with someone who made me realise that friends are people you can argue with, admit your mistakes to, and get over it, as opposed to make excuses and turn the argument around. And I'm glad I spoke to them, even though all of this is quite depressing .
I don't appreciate snobs, but then again, I can be a bit quick to judge. Sometimes, it's a genuine mistake. Other times it isn't. Sometimes it's not deliberate, but you get the hint. And then the person decides to get offended, and when you explain they act all ARGH. Like, you don't know whether to rip into them or cry or just walk away and never think of it again. Oh dear.
So, epic fail so far with the whole 'be nice to everyone no matter what'. I'm actually very annoyed with myself. Part of it is that people don't understand that I'm human, and that when I laugh it means I'm joking. But I admit that most of it is my fault. I expect everyone I speak with to be able to tell when I'm serious and when I'm not, and to understand me, and this is very selfish. So learn from my mistakes LOL. (That was me trying to make light of a blackhole-dark situation).
I wish I could just be NICE. Seriously, how hard can it be? There are heaps of nice people, and it isn't at all hard for them, or at least not from the outside. But at least they're likeable.
I really don't know what to do, so I'm going to go and read MLIAs. Here's a few I found amusing:
Today I decided to be mischievous and texted “I love your significant other” to a random number. The person replied “She loves you too, but it will never work out.” He wins. MLIA.
A few weeks ago, I decided to be clever and hide money in one of my pockets to surprise my future self. Today, I couldn't find that money and was angry with my past self. MLIA
Today, I was talking to my friend about food. My friend said "I love food." and I replied with "Me too, it's like all I eat!". There was a silence. Then we laughed. MLIA
I don't appreciate snobs, but then again, I can be a bit quick to judge. Sometimes, it's a genuine mistake. Other times it isn't. Sometimes it's not deliberate, but you get the hint. And then the person decides to get offended, and when you explain they act all ARGH. Like, you don't know whether to rip into them or cry or just walk away and never think of it again. Oh dear.
So, epic fail so far with the whole 'be nice to everyone no matter what'. I'm actually very annoyed with myself. Part of it is that people don't understand that I'm human, and that when I laugh it means I'm joking. But I admit that most of it is my fault. I expect everyone I speak with to be able to tell when I'm serious and when I'm not, and to understand me, and this is very selfish. So learn from my mistakes LOL. (That was me trying to make light of a blackhole-dark situation).
I wish I could just be NICE. Seriously, how hard can it be? There are heaps of nice people, and it isn't at all hard for them, or at least not from the outside. But at least they're likeable.
I really don't know what to do, so I'm going to go and read MLIAs. Here's a few I found amusing:
Today I decided to be mischievous and texted “I love your significant other” to a random number. The person replied “She loves you too, but it will never work out.” He wins. MLIA.
A few weeks ago, I decided to be clever and hide money in one of my pockets to surprise my future self. Today, I couldn't find that money and was angry with my past self. MLIA
Today, I was talking to my friend about food. My friend said "I love food." and I replied with "Me too, it's like all I eat!". There was a silence. Then we laughed. MLIA
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